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So I signed up, paid, and then eHarmony delivered me my initial 7 matches. I scanned, knit picked, and over analyzed (like that’s a shocker). This is a semi breakdown of the big 7.

1. Joseph, 23 from Colorado who is obviously out of my age range. They slipped him in! He looks more like a little brother material. He’s also an AT&T service rep which was a turn off. I have nothing for cell phone service people at the present time. haha
2. Joshua, 23 in business administration from Louisiana who is way too short at 5′ 2″ for my 5′ 9″ stature and also out of age range. I was kind of sad he was so short and young…I read his profile he seems very sincere and genuine. He’s diverse in music has OCD tendencies! You could also tell he is definitely a family man which struck me. He says “I’m passionate about becoming a great father and husband someday. I want to be able to give my kids and wife the world, and have a family built on trust and unconditional love for all.” Now that I type more about him I thinking twice about deleting him…hmm
3. Matt, 31, a company owner from Mississippi whose blue eyes awed me when I first saw his pic. He is a looker. Nothing about his profile stuck out…it was kind of just general. Seems to be a fishing, hunting, outdoorsy fellow. What disturbed me towards the end of his profile is that he reads Southern Living.
4. Daniel, 26, electrician from Mississippi. Once again nothing stuck out about this one. The deal breaker for me was when he said he cannot live without his hat, boots, truck, boat, and camo.
5. Bradley, 33, Mississippi who’s in insurance. Absolutely nothing desirable in his profile. It was not even half as long as the others profiles. The kicker here was his two pictures. There was a HUGE age difference in the two. He’s okay looking I suppose…blond hair, blue eyed type.
6. Kevin, 33, research and development from Mississippi. Picture, as superficial as it sounds, was the first turn off. He is a candidate for the “R” word. Haha. AND he also listed camo as one of his cannot live withouts!! WTH
7. Lastly there is Erik, 29, from Louisiana who is a soldier. He has a daughter who looks to be about 3 or 4. His information seems decent. Nothing really stuck out at me with him but he did initiate communication with me first so we’ll see.

Well those are the initial matches, the only ones eHarmony has found thus far.

As far as communication goes on the site, Erik communicated with me first by selecting 5 questions from a list and sending them to me. The answers were predetermined but there’s a section to type in a different answer if you desire. His five questions to me were:

1. Which of the following marriage issues do you fear most?
2. If you were to marry how many children would be ideal?
3. Which of the following quirks would bother you most about a partner?
4. How romantic are you?
5. If I had a bad day, what would be the first thing you’d do for me?

So after I replied I could send 5 questions of my choosing:

1. When in a relationship how much personal space do you usually need?
2. How would characterize the end of most of your romantic relationships?
3. Where would you want to go on a Saturday night?
4. How often do you find yourself laughing?
5. What are your body type preferences for a mate?

Most of his answers were pretty simple and laid back. The next step is for me to send him my lists of must-haves and can’t stands which I did. Stay tuned…

        
        
        
        
        

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